I USED TO SAY:

    I should not have to bribe my children to do what I say.  I am their Mother, I ask, they do!

THE GRAND PLAN

For the first time I saw Adam and Eve as children learning the will of their father and the method of parenting became clear to me.

I had to change my terminology for success.

IS IT ILLEGAL OR WRONG TO WANT TO RAISE CHILDREN UNTO GOD?

    NO!  This is where the Gardening begins. We will re-seed our thought process and actions to something more DIVINE.

IS IT POSSIBLE YOU ARE THE INSTRUMENT BY WHICH GOD HAS PROVIDED FOR YOUR CHILDREN TO RECEIVE BLESSINGS TO BECOME THE BEST THEY CAN BE?

 YES!  So we will provide blessings for performance.

So we will reward our children for doing good deeds!